In basketball, a rebound is taking a second shot right after missing the first. So why are rebound relationships so taboo? Truthfully, they happen all the time and always will. And if you overlook it, you may miss out on a terrific partnership.
Rebound relationships are actually safer. You’re more aware of everything. How to treat others, how you are being treated, and you know your deal breakers. If you come across someone who just got out of an unhealthy relationship, they may look at you and be thrilled that you are a better fit.
The only pitfall of a rebound is continuing your bad habits. If you’re drawn to dysfunction, chances are you’ll do it again. You may even self-sabotage by picking someone who will drag you down. Then there;s the person that only wants a rebound side-piece.
No fear, there are red flags to look at for. Here are some.
- Sporadic availability. On again-off again? Dunk them and walk away
- Communication with their ex
- Talking about their ex (or not at all)
Source:Women’s Health