Going out with someone new can be exciting, but there’s a lot of pressure on first dates because they can make or break the potential relationship. And even if you feel like the first date went well, it can be hard to know if they feel it too. So how do you know if your date wants to go out again, besides them just coming out and saying it? Here’s what the dating experts say.
- They’re easily distracted- If you’re on a first date and they can’t stop checking their phone or seem more interested in what’s happening around them than you, that’s a sign they’re not into it.
- You’ve gone a full day without a follow-up- If your date hasn’t reached out in 24 hours, you may not get that text or call you’re waiting for. According toAndrew Hanson, president of matchmaking firm Love Architects, “When they’re into you, there’s always a sense of excitement and urgency to let you know.”
- There’s no enthusiasm on the first date- If you show up excited with anticipation and your date only seems disinterested, Hanson says to prepare yourself for this being your only date with them.
- The vibe isn’t sincere- When the flirtation feels forced or really awkward, that second date may not be in the cards.
- Their body language says it all- You can tell by the way someone stands, folds their arms, turns away, or doesn’t make eye contact if they’re not comfortable around you. Dating and relationship expert Elena Murzello warns that if you’re getting that kind of body language, it could mean they’re not interested in meeting up again.
- They simply don’t mention a second date- Relationship expertBonnie Winston explains, “Most people who like one another mention that they want to see each other again or even ask their date out before the date is over.” So the biggest sign your date doesn’t want another one is that they never bring it up.
Source:Insider